⚠️ BOTH STONE SPECIES MUST BE CONFIRMED BEFORE PUBLISHING — READ IN FULL
This product has a title listing “Opal” and “Turquoise” as the two stones, while the description body refers only to “white and blue lab-created stones” and an internal draft note references “Watermelon Tourmaline” as a source input — three different stone identities across the same listing. Confirm the exact material of both pear stones with your supplier before publishing. Specific issues per stone:
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Lab Opal (white pear stone): Lab-created opal is commercially produced (Gilson process) and is a legitimate disclosure — IF the white stone is actually lab opal. Confirm with supplier.
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Lab Turquoise (blue pear stone): Lab-created turquoise does not exist as a commercially produced synthetic gemstone. Natural turquoise is a complex copper aluminium phosphate hydroxide mineral (CuAl₆(PO₄)₄(OH)₈·4H₂O); no established method exists for synthesising gem-quality turquoise in a laboratory at commercial scale. Products sold as “lab-created turquoise” are typically: howlite or magnesite dyed blue, blue glass, lab-created blue spinel, or reconstituted turquoise powder; none of these are turquoise and all require disclosure by their correct name.
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Watermelon Tourmaline (internal draft reference): Lab-created tourmaline does not exist commercially (same issue as SKU 20707 in this catalog); discard this reference entirely.
Send a single supplier query confirming: (1) what is the white pear stone, and (2) what is the blue pear stone. Replace all “[OPAL]” and “[TURQUOISE]” placeholders once confirmed.
A two-stone Toi et Moi bypass ring — one pear-cut lab [OPAL — confirm] and one pear-cut lab [TURQUOISE — confirm] set on a curved bypass band that sweeps both stones together at the ring’s face — handcrafted in Jaipur in 925 sterling silver, yellow plated, or rose plated. The Toi et Moi (French: “You and Me”) format places two stones side by side or facing each other within a single ring setting; the bypass band curves toward both stones from opposite sides, bringing them together at the centre of the ring face. The pairing of a white stone and a vivid blue stone creates a high-contrast two-tone composition at the ring face.
Stone Details
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Stone 1: Lab-created [CONFIRM: opal / white sapphire / other] — pear cut; white/colourless; [confirm setting type]; October birthstone equivalent if opal [confirm]
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Stone 2: Lab-created [CONFIRM: blue spinel / howlite simulant / other — NOT turquoise; turquoise is not commercially synthesised] — pear cut; vivid blue; [confirm setting type]; December birthstone equivalent if turquoise confirmed as species name [confirm]
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Lab Opal (if confirmed): Commercially produced synthetic opal (Gilson process) — genuine silica sphere microstructure; same play-of-colour mechanism as natural opal; a legitimate and verifiable lab-created gemstone disclosure
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Lab Turquoise (cannot confirm as-is): True lab-created turquoise does not exist commercially; the blue stone must be identified by its correct mineral name once confirmed by the supplier
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Pear Cut: Modified brilliant with one pointed end and one rounded end; the pointed end is the most vulnerable point of the stone and benefits from secure prong or bezel coverage at the tip
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Stone Mohs Hardness: [Confirm once both species identified] — lab opal: ~5–6.5; natural turquoise: 5–6; lab spinel: 8; lab sapphire: 9
Ring Details
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Style: Toi et Moi two-stone bypass — anniversary ring, promise ring, couple’s ring, October or December birthday gift
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Format: Bypass band with two pear stones; the curved band sweeps toward both stones from opposite directions; the two pear tips face toward each other at the centre of the ring face, creating a symmetrical “facing” composition
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Metal: 925 sterling silver, yellow plated, or rose plated (select above)
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Band: Curved bypass band with substantial profile; comfortable and wearable as a standalone statement ring or stacked
- Hypoallergenic & nickel-free base
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Ring Sizes: US/CA 3–10 (custom sizes on request)
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SKU: 20035
About Toi et Moi Rings
The Toi et Moi ring format — French for “You and Me” — places two stones within a single ring as equals, rather than the conventional single-centre-stone format. The two stones symbolise two individuals or two moments brought together. The format has a significant historical lineage in fine jewelry: Napoleon Bonaparte gave Joséphine de Beauharnais a Toi et Moi ring as an engagement ring in 1796; it was revived in contemporary fine jewelry in the late 2010s and has remained one of the most prominent engagement and anniversary ring trends since. In this ring, the bypass band format adds a further layer of meaning to the Toi et Moi concept: the band approaches from two directions and curves to bring the two stones together at the centre, physically enacting the “coming together” symbolism in the band geometry itself. The white and blue stone pairing creates a high-contrast two-tone composition — cool tones throughout, with the white stone’s brightness against the deep blue of its partner.
Available Metals
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925 Sterling Silver — may tarnish with moisture; restore with a silver polishing cloth; the cool silver tone unifies the white-and-blue stone pairing in a monochromatic cool palette
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Yellow Plated — 925 sterling silver base with yellow gold colour plating; warm metal against cool stones; plating may wear with friction and moisture
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Rose Plated — 925 sterling silver base with rose gold colour plating; plating may wear with friction and moisture
Custom Options
Custom sizing available on request — message us before ordering. Solid gold options may be available on request — message us to confirm before ordering.
Occasions & Gift Ideas
- Anniversary ring, Promise ring, Couple’s ring, October birthday (opal birthstone), December birthday (turquoise birthstone), Toi et Moi engagement ring alternative
- Perfect for: two-stone ring buyer, Toi et Moi ring buyer, bypass ring buyer, opal ring buyer, blue stone ring buyer, October birthstone gift, December birthstone gift
Care Instructions
- Remove before swimming, showering, or applying lotions and perfumes
- Avoid harsh chemicals on stones and metal; both stones [pending confirmation] may be soft — handle with care
- Clean gently with a soft damp cloth; do not use abrasive cleaners or ultrasonic cleaners until stone species confirmed
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Plated options: Keep dry to extend plating life; store in a sealed anti-tarnish pouch
- Store separately in a padded box or pouch
Returns & Exchanges
- Contact us within 2 weeks of delivery
- Ship back within 3 weeks
- Cancellations accepted within 24 hours, no fees
Frequently Asked Questions
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What are the two stones? [CONFIRM both species before answering — see disclosure note above]
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Are the stones natural or lab-created? Lab-created [confirm species for both stones].
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Is this ring solid gold? No — 925 sterling silver base with gold colour plating; not solid gold.
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What does Toi et Moi mean? French for “You and Me” — a two-stone ring format symbolising two individuals or two moments brought together.
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Can I get a custom size? Yes — message us before ordering.
Packaging
Arrives in an eco-friendly jewelry gift box, shipped in a padded mailer — ready to gift. Tracking confirmation sent at shipment.
[Both stone species to be confirmed.] Handmade in Jaipur, India.